Janice Clark, 14 November 1947 - 3 September 2010

We have just sent a prayer letter out. The first part was the sad news about mum, Janice Clark, who died on Friday 3rd September after suffering with cancer for over a year. Her funeral will be 14th September, with a thanksgiving on the 18th, both in Milton Keynes (ask for details). This isn’t the time or place for many words about her, but I wanted to write three things that we feel very strongly.
 
The first is that to be with Christ is better than to live, and so we are very glad for her because she has entered into God’s perfect rest, where there are no more tears, and we rejoice that she trusted him.
 
The second is that we will miss her very much, because she was mum and we have to wait to take our place in that perfect rest with Jesus and all the faithful who have gone before us.
 
The third is that we are moved and challenged by, and grateful for, a remarkable legacy that she has left. Lengthy tributes elsewhere, but she and dad taught us the gospel as children, taught and modelled contentment in Christ, set us an example of sacrifice for the sake of Christ and others, loved us well, and prayed so faithfully. (Dad showed us her prayer diary last week. It is remarkable in its comprehensiveness and consistency.) She wouldn’t want a focus on her now—her life and death point us upwards not backwards—but she would be thrilled to learn that her example lead to greater love and faithfulness on our part. God-willing, it will. I hope that my own children will look on the example of their mum and dad and know that they too have learned great treasures in such normal ways, and be encouraged that they have been taught by people who have been taught by, among others, my mum.
 
I love the fact that such a great example was set by such normal people, with no whistles and bells. It encourages and reminds me that our years are well spent if they are wasted in the cause of the gospel—not just in glamorous missionary fields, but at kids’ bedsides and around meal tables and in countless caring conversations with all sorts of people, all with the purpose of establishing others perfect in Christ—as she now truly is. And I am encouraged by the knowledge that this great work of making disciples is done by normal people with the simple truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ through open Bibles.
 
I don’t feel the need to look for silver linings in black clouds. The good things are plain to see, and mum’s death (which is really her life beginning as God always wanted it to be: face to face with him, no sin in her, no cause for sorrow, and unendingly glorious and glorifying) brings many of them into sharper focus for us. 

I hope and pray that this encourages and challenges you in the same direction as it has us.

Greece today

On my flight to England to try to see mum before she died I read the editorial in the Aegean Airlines in-flight magazine. Because many people had been asking us during our months in England what the current situation is in Greece I thought I'd post a few paragraphs here because the Aegean CEO picks up on it.

It is no secret that Greece is today facing many challenges. As a country and as a society we are only in the beginning of a very punishing process to re-establish our international credibility, our productivity, our belief in our own ability to restart the development path of our country.
The current situation is clearly the most difficult since WW2., and the international image of our country has suffered.
However, especially because we are in this environment, it is more crucial than ever to project both internationally and locally that Greece, its companies, its people can produce products that are globally competitive in quality and efficiency. Especially during this year, where international organisations have been downgrading ratings and expectations for our country, it is crucial to add a small but, I believe, very promising star [this is talking about the Star Alliance of airlines] on the map, where Greece is to show that aviation services to the country are actually upgraded.
The message is clear: new good things are still coming out of Greece, even now, and it may be happening in many more areas than you think; come and visit the country and see for yourselves.

 

The feeling from business is pessimistic - but the vibe on the street is pretty normal. We expected to see changes but food prices appear to be stable (our local gyros are now €1.90 [that's right, about £1.60 for a quality kebab], 10c up on March, and all other prices are about the same apart from petrol which is perhaps 10-15c/l higher).

Anyway, I'm not economically savvy and I gather that there will be a lag in price increases that's linked to fuel price increases, so we'll see. However, unless you listen to the chat radio or read pieces by businessmen, Greece seems the same as it did last year.

Another deletion

Seems I also deleted something about Ruth being born. We'll post something soon about her, but she does still exist.

Challenges we face

I posted this a while ago but somehow deleted it. Last time it had more detail on but I'll just post the list so that it's back up there.

Apologies.

These eight challenges were how we summed up our return to Athens next week during our recommissioning service in July.

1. Nurturing a godly marriage
2. Raising our children well and praying that they might trust Jesus themselves
3. Relating well to friends, family and other supporters
4. Loving and serving our church family
5. Leading our team with wisdom and compassion
6. Heading towards fluency in Greek
7. Reaching out to our neighbours
8. Building student ministry!

This last point is of course laughably enormous but this post is not the place to expand.

Our hearts are idol factories...

...as John Calvin once wrote. I've realised a lot lately that I am a simple fellow who inhabits a fairly simple if somewhat chaotic universe. And so it is unsurprising perhaps that it turns out one of my idols is simplicity itself!

Through analysing some of my frustrations, weaknesses and struggles in recent months and years (related to family life, church life, IFES team life, the Greek bureaucracy, UK transport policy, supermarket shelves [why so may types of baby wipes?] and many others) with Dawn, it turns out that I have idolised the easy life. This is probably related to laziness, though not only that.

I still think that simple is better than complicated, and I don't think the solution is to clutter me up, but our hearts so easily set themselves on the stuff rather than the creator - be it technological stuff, wearable stuff, the big stuff that we live in (houses I mean) or quality of life stuff: for me, a simple life with a minimum of clutter and distraction and choice! And if our hearts are excited and satisfied by the stuff rather than the provider of it, the Lord of it, it's idolatry.

What are your idols?

Dear children, keep yourself from idols.

Ruth

Well, it's over a month since she was born so high time we updated this (thanks Bec for the prod, which reminds me to ask you for any suggestions on subjects you'd be interested to read entries on. The current economic crisis for example, and how to pull through. Or the ridiculous habit of the English media to talk up England's chances at a major sporting event. Or whether the youth of today are to blame for being the youth of today that they are.)

Anyway, Ruth is very well! She came out very happily and has been largely happy since, though the last few days she's been a bit more unsettled and keeping Dawn awake more at night. I have realised that my night time feeding efforts with my three girls have not been as sterling as they were with Joel back in the winter of 2002, and I have become adept at sleeping through her 3-hourly wake-ups. She looks like all our other kids did, give or take an ounce or two, and has an impressive ability to fix one with a rather impassive stare, which really makes you feel as though she is sizing you up.

C Day

Unless Dawn goes into labour early, Bod will be dragged into the world at the QMC Nottingham on Tuesday, 4 May. Watch this space (and other ones too) for developments.